because nothing is cut and dry.

Sunday, December 20, 2009

positivity

Good things of this past week, in no particular order:

- listening to so much news that i actually feel like i maybe have some iota of a handle of what is going down in copenhagen

- getting delicious sweets on sale at the farmer's market. eating those sweets and not feeling guilty about it.

- receiving unexpected email that made me feel appreciated on a night i was feeling sad.

- getting two South End Press books in the mail.

- holding a beautiful, tiny baby in my arms. hands down, for my whole life, this has been the most soothing activity i can imagine.

- taking time out to eat lunch with my co-workers.

- a visit from someone who knows me better than anyone in the world. remembering how incredibly lucky i am to have them.

- honestly confronting someone when i felt disrespected. accepting an apology but standing ground for myself.

- proactively inviting some newish friends out to dinner.

- finishing over half of a thursday NY times crossword puzzle by myself in one sitting.

- talking about shifts in the landscape of my job and feeling excited about new learnings and collaborations.

- buying what i think will be the only present i give at christmas, because it is exactly right and i am genuinely excited to give it.

- making pumpkin soup from scratch while listening to NPR this morning. it made me feel like my mother in the most wonderful way.

- paying attention to my breathing.

xo.

3 comments:

  1. Jessie - This post made my Monday morning very happy!!!
    Your comment about confronting someone was especially wonderful, since Jeff and I were in a situation recently where we felt disrespected and after struggling on what to do, decided to explain to the other person why we were uncomfortable with the stereotypes he was using. While awkward, he seemed to be genuinely greatful to know that the expression he had used was offense and told us he would not use it again.
    Anyways - great post!!!!
    Love - Emily

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  2. im going to start emailing you more often, on the chance that you're having a bad night and i can make it better

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  3. ...as if you don't email me enough already!

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